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For anyone that read my post about my friend that almost killed herself and lost her arm drunk driving and then after months of recovery she drove drunk again and badly injured two other people I want to point something out. Many of her "friends" condoned her drinking after her recovery. The person who served her the drinks the night of her second wreck was one of out "best friends".

Myself and her sisters and a lot of other people that loved her didn't think it was okay. We told her so. I for one was alienated from her for almost a year because she thought I was so hard on her. I was always loving in my tone (rememeber once again - you cannot hear the tone one is using in writing a lot of times and someon may assume someone is being nasty when they are being gentle)but I was very set in the fact that I thought she needed help - and that she should never drink again - she was a very bad judge of her own drinking. We were all bartenders back then (I bartended through college) and alot ot them thought they had invincable tolerances. Of course when I got my license to bartend I learned that tolerance has nothing to do with it. It's what you drink.

After she recovered "For Real" and spent a long time in AA and what not she called me one night crying. She said "I am so sorry for what I've done to you - I'm so sorry for turning my back to you when you were only telling me the truth - you were telling me what I needed to hear to become the best person I can be. "She said that out of the many many friends she has she learned in recovery that she only had two aside from her family. The two she stopped talking to - the two thay said she had to stop drinking and that she would never be able to drink again and drive - not even a little - because it is risking TOO MUCH. I was overjoyed that she finally saw how much I loved her and that I was only being strong to help her. The ones that babied her and told her it would be okay to drink a little - and whatnot - they didn't care what happened to her. Keep in mind I am telling a story ehre - not to anyone in particular - just a story to maybe show another point of veiw.

Even if she never talked to me again - but I KNEW that what I said helped her to see the light and strive to be the best person she could be - it would have been worth it. Nastiness could be just plain old one human caring greatly for another human being - even a stranger.

Everyone deserves to have the truth offered - to be able to maybe have a chance to see things differently. It's so easy to agree for the sake of agreeing - it's much harder to say - hey - maybe you should think about things. I don't think the people who were being strong were being nasty - or argumentative - I KNOW I wasn't. I was being much more caring than someon who says - hey man tough break - hope you get out of it.

WHAT if what someone said here saved a life?? Changed a life for the better? Helped someon be a better mom or dad??? I'm not just referring to Yeppers - what if it helped ANYONE?? Then would it be nasty? Remember - you can't hear my tone - which if anyone here knew me they'd know I have a sfot and lvong voice - I'm definatley NOT being mean!

I wish the BEST for you yeppers - whatever that may be. And I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

Britney