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Yeppers,
Please. Enough. You say you came to the board for advise and support, and everyone here has offered you the best possible advise and support you could possibly get. People have offered concern over your drinking, your children, your alcohol problem, suggested rehab, discussed with you how important it is to not DRINK AND DRIVE at all,people have prayed for you, and you are STILL talking about technicalities, how the lawyer can "prove" certain things in court that may be able to get the charges dropped, ad infinitum.
I agree with IMSUSCOTT, none of this matters! What matters is your problem with alcohol, and that you get help. The fact that you are still focusing on the legal whatevers tells me that you are in denial and missing the whole point. You can't get the kind of support you are looking for here if what you want is someone to cheer you on in your hopes of "beating the system." What you WILL get support for is taking responsibility for your behavior, understanding the critical nature of the choices you've made, and asking for the help you so clearly need. People would bend over backwards to support you on that path. I don't think you can expect more than that!
DUI is such a charged, emotional issue - and several people here have had experiences where they have lost loved ones or friends because of drunk drivers. Please understand, i'm not trying to be mean or judgemental - i am just afraid you are completely missing the point, and that level of denial will definitely continue to lead you dowwn the wrong path. Even now, you're still saying "Will i ever drink and drive again? Probably not." It is amazing to hear you say that rather than an absolute, resounding "NO! I WILL NEVER DRINK AND DRIVE AGAIN!" This, i think, is why you are getting the kinds of responses you're getting here.
Please. Get help for yourself. Go into rehab and look at your disease, and begin a program of recovery. Move away from the technicalities, the excuses, how you might get around the laws so you might be able to drink and drive again. In my humble opinion, you NEED HELP, and i pray for you, and your children, that you get it.
Peace, BigC