bhamdave
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There once was a thread on "Common Courtesy" but I can't seem to find it.
There are two (2) words that most people have forgotten or they have become lost in their vocabulary.
The words are "Thank You"
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lovepink
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I remember the thread you spoke of but can't locate it either. I wholeheartedly agree with you - please & thank you go a long way, especially if you've asked a member for information that requires some research on his/her part.
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qbird
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Thank you for bringing this up. It is frustrating to help someone and they can't even say thanks for the help.
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toky20
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Thank you, bhamdave. You're always making sure things here are polite and civil. I appreciate it. I also remember the thread, but it can't hurt to have a reminder. It helps to be kind to those we order from, as well, not just the people we come to for support and information.
You're the best!!  
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Jeremiah
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Hiya Dave
Yeah,when folks are in pain or having anxious days,it's easier to forget ones' manners,it seems. I have found,those that consistantly use manners get more help. Funny that way,ya know?
I was raised with a 'switch' across whatever body part my Grandma could reach if I forgot my manners. I learned early not to forget. 
Thanks for reminder,always welcome!
J.
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adb263
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What I find most frustrating is the people who ask questions such as "Who is the DR? What Pharmacy?" Alot of the questions would be answered if they would just look through the messages they are posting a reply to! UGH Thats what gets on my nerves.
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bhamdave
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Jeremiah, I'm from the same "school" of learning not to forget your manners.
There was plenty of times I was told to pick out the switch, but it had not a small one, so I chose the one that had more flexibility to them, they hurt the least.
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It's not YOUR problem (I hope that)
It's not MY problem (I know that)
But it is still OUR problem and WE know that!
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zorg
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I think it was my post Dave, I forget which board.
We are so Best if kept off the board self-absorbed as a whole that it's not even funny.
I'm guilty, you're guilty, everyone's guilty. There are quite a few that still don't realize how guilty they are though (eg: the people that let the door close in my face, and use a smirk as a Thank You)
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sunbaby6
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I am VIP too, and have seen it happen many times...I can't say that I am NOT GUILTY, when it comes to 'thank you's', but I have seen the "Please,can you help me", more than I have seen the "Thank you so much" phrases...
That goes for personal questions as well...Some beg to get those precious 'answers', and then you never hear from them again....unless ofcourse, they need more answers/help...
It makes others less willing to help, which is a shame, because thats what makes both these boards 'work'...help from one another, and the common courtesy to just say 'Thank You'....JMHO.... 
Take Care~~
~~sunbaby6~~
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mello
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I, too remember that thread and I am so glad it has been reiterated here. I try to always remember to say please and thank you and because of that I REALLY notice and feel somewhat hurt if someone does not respond to me in the same way. Maybe "hurt" is not a good word, but I guess "taken for granted" would be more suitable. And Sonick is right, we are ALL guilty at times...so let's keep this as a reminder to remember that noone owes anyone anything...if someone helps you, they are going out of their way to help you. It takes time to reply to PMs and get telephone numbers and emails addies, etc...I think it's great this was brought up again.
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samisu
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Thank you for reminding us that common courtesy and use of the words Thank You are so very important in every aspect of our lives. I too was raised to mind my manners and I try to live by that rule as much as possible. All of us have times when we forget and/or just don't take the time but a gentle reminder is always in good taste. 
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Jeremiah
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LOL Dave!
Actually,the older the switch,the quicker it would break,thus ending that 'whoopin'. Then there are the Fig tree switches,had the fuzzies on the branch,you'd be cleaning itchy stuff off your arms and legs til suppertime....ahh,the Persimmon tree switch,with its prickly bark.. Now that was one I avoided at all costs...I prefer the Pecan tree switch,has just the right flexibility not to sting too bad and after the 3rd or 4th whack it would graciously break.
How about Grandmas shoes? When neighbors saw her shoes flying by the windows,they knew I had forgot my manners. The most embarrassing was going to Church after "forgetting your manners"..sitting there nonchalantly while the kids snickered at the size 6 high heel sticking out of your head(Ohh,Jeremiah forgot his manners) and the 'knowing nods' the elders would give Grandma.
Sheesh..and kids think they have it hard THESE days??
J.
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bhamdave
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What made them hurt the most was when it was done in front of others (cousins, neighbors, school friends).
But today I don't hold that against them at all. I may not be the best person in the world, nor would I win any awards. But they help to make me the person I am today.
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It's not YOUR problem (I hope that)
It's not MY problem (I know that)
But it is still OUR problem and WE know that!
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bhamdave
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courtesy (noun) -
1. a courteous or respectful or considerate act
2. a courteous manner
Synonyms: good manners
3. a courteous or respectful or considerate remark
Really big people are, above everything else, courteous, considerate and generous -- not just to some people in some circumstances -- but to everyone all the time .
~ Thomas J. Watson ~
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AIDS
It's not YOUR problem (I hope that)
It's not MY problem (I know that)
But it is still OUR problem and WE know that!
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Jeremiah
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LOL Dave!
Usually if all the Cousins were around,we'd all get it!
Of course,I was kidding about the severity of switches,and I know they helped form the person I am today,too.Like I never used a switch on my kiddos,and they turned out pretty good!
J.
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amagic2u
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Just incase: Thank you, Please, Have a nice day,and be safe.you all have been so helpful to me. I and have been reading for a long long time joined last year DB has been like a god send and you all are Angels Please let me say Thank You Alice [amagic2u]
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Jeremiah
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What a nice post,Alice...and Welcome to DB! Glad you're posting,too!
Thank You!
J.
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toky20
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Sonick and sunbaby, you two are absolutely right (I'm just going to avoid that 'gramma's switch thing'  ). It is hard sometimes to be polite in a society in which each person seems to be sure they are 'owed' something for having been born. Seems every day is a race to see who will stay alive and who won't.
Sonick, you always bring a bit of wisdom to the board and I appreciate it. Sunbaby, I hope I will remember to thank everyone who helps me from now on. Thanks for the reminder!
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zorg
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Hey, that goes both ways Toky my friend! I've learned more from you than you'll ever know! I am not as wise as thee but I'm doing my best to learn from my experiences You've added considerably to them, and I will take that to others in my life as well. Cool how this whole sharing thing works
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TLT
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Thank-you Bhamdave, for the reminder,
I always try to remember my manners, but I may have forgotten to say thankyou to a few members here that have always been there for me in a time of need.
Terri
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