Sonick and sunbaby, you two are absolutely right (I'm just going to avoid that 'gramma's switch thing' ). It is hard sometimes to be polite in a society in which each person seems to be sure they are 'owed' something for having been born. Seems every day is a race to see who will stay alive and who won't.
Sonick, you always bring a bit of wisdom to the board and I appreciate it. Sunbaby, I hope I will remember to thank everyone who helps me from now on. Thanks for the reminder!