I have found this thread to be really interesting! I have a totally different type of situation, but still kind of, (I guess, shocking, would be the word), to me.
When I was with my 8yr old son's dad, he hated meds and the idea of me taking them, because he also felt I could just be "fixed"....
Now that we are not together, he is the most supportive man I have ever known! All this, "Can I help you?", Have you ordered?", "Do you need money?", "Should I add you to my CC"?, on and on...NOW he is soooo concerened!! LOL!!!
I would never take advantage of his offers for help, because he is a wonderful man..But bottom line, he never understood or cared when we were together, and now he's at my house, checking all the time to make sure I have what I need!!
Men..go figure..hehehehe!!! One of my friends 'suggested' that he may be looking for a way 'back in'. That really did give me something to think about. Someone doesn't just change their whole way of thinking about meds in a year...Or do they????
Well, I have already told him, "The door is closed and no re-entry is allowed". LOL!!! but I was very nice, after all he is my son's dad~~~ ( AND extremly great looking..lol) hmmmm..maybe I should think this over.....