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OUr husbands could be related. I never like to say anything negative about him either because my husband is a great guy, he has taken care of me and the kids for 20yrs, works his rear off and loves us all to death. But being the farm "boy' he is he doesn't have time for illness. He went through cancer and numerous other things and has never taken anything. He has a hard time understanding how come someone can't "fix" me. Just since Jan I have had 3 mri's and 2 ctscans, I can only spend so much and they keep wanting me to go to other doctors, I have fibro, myofacial pain, and never damage in my left arm and lower back and hip. I get the same thing from doctors, "gosh you look so good how can you feel bad". Well geez, I am only going to go through so much of that also. I can't do half the things I use to do and my husbnd gets very frustrated with me, and get frustrated when at the end of the day I am on the couch with heating pad and down for the count. He does not know I order through op's and I know he would not understand, and I do hate the fact that I can't tell him, but such is life. After 20 yrs of taking care of everyone else, I am to the point if I hurt I will take care of me otherwise I am no good to anyone else. I am glad I found his thread, it helps just to post to all of you. Thanks
chevygal
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