Although I don't tell my husband about ordering from ops he also has chronic pain so knows full well how I feel. He doesn't nag me for feeling bad and although I don't feel like doing the things I use to do neither does he so we are quite happy together. We have both changed and it is nice that we are alike. Not that I would wish cp on anyone but to be married to someone who wanted to climb Mount Everest or go sky diving all the time would be a real problem.
Doglover82