I would love to have a real doctor-patient relationship but it has always seemed to me that the doctors are the ones who don't want a real relationship. They want to get you in and out as quickly as possible, they don't listen to a word you say, they treat you like you don't have a clue about your condition, (even though I've had it for 20 years and they have not experienced it themselves) and they always know best, you couldn't possibly know anything at all. Ugh, I hate doctors right now. I've been back and forth to 5 different urologists and none of them will do what I want them to do because I've been through this so many times and I know what works. They say they have a different philosophy and give me Detrol and pee dye and say "this will take care of it." No it won't, I need to be dialated and be given a bladder irrigation. Guess I'll have to sell my car so that I can go back to my old urologist who is not covered under my insurance at $400.00 a pop.