LOL Toe, I know what you mean. I also welcome PMs from new members; usually they are kind and considerate and just looking for info, but when they start with "you have a lot of posts so I figure you know everything...", I just sit and think, 'no, actually very little about OPs in general. but I do know why people need help and I'll support you if I can'.

But that line never fails to crack me up.

PrettyDay, this has been one of the longest-running, informative threads I've seen in a long time. Thank you for bringing it up. Personal issues should remain personal, and I have made mistakes in posting in the past that I regret. Fortunately, there is a lot of support and understanding here and I also thank you for starting this thread.

Toky