I went to Oprahs site to check it out and I was going to email her with my side of the 11/20 story, I see that she has a chat board and I see this as a way for us to be able to get our side across as a group. There is a way to start a new discussion/topic and get our points across. Sorry DB, I am not trying to endorse this site (Oprahs) i think she shouls get the other side of this womans story BEFORE it airs, and lets see if she brings up any of "the other side of pain" when she airs the show! Anglwink