Thank you for that post. You hit the nail right on the head. That is how I feel exactly. To answer your question about my wife, she was on the fence. But I think that she is finally starting to see how f'ed up her parents really are. I have never had the pleasure of having to deal with someone like him before. If anything I have learned a good life lesson from this whole experience. You have to look you for number one. Plain and simple. Second, never work for your in-laws.