I think everyone should give her a little credit. If it were me, I wouldnt know the first thing to post, as I'd obviously be mortified and confused and scared. Granted, she hasn't written back to post more info which I agree is strange, but I would be nervous about saying too much on the board, as "anything you say or do can be used against you in a court of law" or something like that. This should be a place where people can share ideas and find support. Hopefully people are honest and are willing to trust and help each other, NOT scare anyone. I believe terrorists use a similar tactic to create panic.

It would be nice to get all the details, but I think it's a lot to ask at this time. Good luck to you....hope things work out.