Congratulations on the wedding date Lemongrass, I love TN, we live on a forty-acre farm far away from everyone...It's a small town where everyone knows everybody. Was born in Ohio but have lived in Tn for most of my life. I got married when I was sixteen and have lived in the same place ever since, I actually have told my husband and sons that I want to be buried here on the farm...At first they laughed but now are starting to take me serious. Sorry you are in so much pain and having to work (especially without meds.)