I hope this isn't long and drawn out for you folks. I'll try to keep it simplified.

I have several medical conditions and I'm uninsured. My bofriend of nearly 15 years wants to get married. For practical reasons, it would benefit me very much for insurance purposes. On the other hand, should I become completely disabled, would I be able to get SSI or SSD if I'm married?

No, it's not that "I" want my cake and eat it too. I just don't want to be burdensome to my family and have my husband paying out hand over fist for everything. It's difficult as it is for us, but if I end up in a debilitating state, at least SSI or SSD would help ease some of the financial burden.

I just don't know which way would best benefit us. Right now, getting married is a necessity so that I can see doctors and get the medical treatment I need.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

lemongrass