chevygal i really feel you.my husband is totally clueless when it comes to our bills;he's the kind of guy that feel everything should be cured by exercising.no joke,he'll say to me"just go run a mile;you'll feel better".so unless i'm in excruciating pain i don't bother to tell him anything about my pain.we do have a good relationship for the most part.i just don't see any reason to let the cat out of the bag.however,if he asked me;i couldn't lie to him.i'm a horrible liar.he knows my medical condition and that it gives me problems quite abit but that's the extent of it.i've found this forum to be a special blessing to me.i too am a believer.G-D heals,dr.s treat.