Ya know that is what I said in one of my other post, that my husband doesn't understand how come "they" just can't fix me. Like you said and I am sure everyone here knows it just don't work like that. And even if it did I would have to have a second morgage to afford to go to the 15 different specialist they want to. A couple of the one I have been to just poo-poo me and tell me to take advil and excercise, good greif I do enough of that as it is just maintaining house and home and the kids ect.
Honesty is probably the best policy, but in my case and this is kind of a laughing matter cause this man I am married to has no idea what gets paid and how much. There have been times when he has been home alone and I have told the dear man when he answers the phone to just say " the check is in the mail" LOL. If he only knew! I don't mean this in a bad way I just have to juggle things sometimes and if he knew how I worked things he would have a heart attack. He is the brawn and I am the brains(I think):)
chevygal