Quincy, you're not being rude at all. I have to be doped to the gills in order to be able to get down. And it's hard enough finding that balance between enough pain relief to be able to be, um, active, and enough pain relief to pass out on or under your partner.

Then there's also the fact that you will have inevitably "overdone" it and cannot afford to medicate that much over the next few days to make up for it.

Interestingly, there apparently 4 different types of FSD. I don't remember where I got this from- an article in womensforum.com or ivillage. Thr differences have to do what point in the game the libido fails you. If I recall correctly, they include 1)don't want to get revved up (battery's dead) 2) can't get revved up (starter's busted) 3) having fun but getting nowhere (stuck in 2nd gear). 4) gwtting somewhere, about to run into a tree, but the tree is a mirage that keeps escaping you (the best auto analogy I can think of for this is when you car has run out of gas but there's just a little left, enough to start and roll a hundred feet and then it dies, repeat as needed)

I don't think being physically unable to have sex due to pain is technically considered FSD. I'm pretty sure FSD is the inability to have an orgasm.