Well put by everyone here concerning this matter, I've been lucky so far and have not had anyone judge, jump to conclusions or been down right nasty to me so far, and I know I have asked alot of questions, even dumb questions that I could not find answers to just by reading the posts, but I have seen others that have had been ran through the ringer for asking a question or stating their opinion. No one here really has all the answers or knowledge for every question or statement made here, only that which applies to their own personal life and experiences. My point being that one persons experience, all though simuilar to another's experience is not exactly the same. Hopefully the majority of us here realize that and can just help each other without judging each other. Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone or should that be , judge not, lest you be judged yourself. Either way, they are both good words to live by. Lord knows I'm not perfect, but then again, who is?????..................Laurie