Shawn,
First let me say hello!
Second let me say this...when you post on a board, forum, or community (whatever you want to call it) you have to be prepared to get responses. Try not to take things too personally or you'll become bitter and feel like sheet.

I've had my share of "love" notes, LOL, and yes sometimes it bothers me. I decided that I'd consider the source. If it was someone whom I respected I'd take a look at the comment and see if there was validity to it and why it bothered me.
Occasionally I'll PM someone to clear up confusion.
As for the other folks and their subtle and sometimes not so subtle jabs...well you know what they say, every has an opinion. Just let it roll off your back and don't think twice about it.

That's how I deal with it. Sometimes I try to stay away for awhile but really that solves nothing and it allows the bully to well bully.
Just be true to yourself, post what you feel is important and worth sharing and to heck with anyone who disagrees. They don't know you or your circumstances.
It's funny what people will presume with limited facts.
I'm guilty of it myself at times.

Take care