I realize this is a month old, but have you ever considered telling her what she wants to hear? It would solve the problem of her being overinvolved, and in the scheme of things far less stressful for you to simply tell her, you know, I've cut back and usually use 3 a day now, or I've added ibuprophen and so I've been able to cut down my use. It's not an important "lie" and will make her feel better and reduce your feelings of anger towards her. What do you think her motive is in this? Perhaps if you could figure that out, you could deal with her better. Just a suggestion.