This is a nasty situation. This is why it is so wrong for the AMA and DEA to clamp down on drs and prescribing because the people that don't care will just find other ways to hurt the people that do....

I just got this vibe....Have you ever had pain meds filled there for you or your husband locally? This grandmother, she shares the same last name with you and your spouse, right? Cause I am smelling a con at the pharmacy...with all the children doing elder care these days, and picking up their own kids, and dealing with extended work hours, it would not take a bad person long when handing out rxs to see the possiblilities in confusion; specially if they recognize when a pt gets Altziemer (sp?) meds and pain meds at once. That is a plum just begging to be purloined.

Hard to stomach. But some people don't care what they do to you or your marriage. You are just a tool to a end to them.

Scream cameras, and legal counsel.

Oh, still can't talk about parent's confusion before death. just know you have my love and sympathy and a useless kind of rage.