Hi there concerned,I just wanted to say that was a really wonderful post you just added.So many times "newbies" are given a snub or not had their posts responded to,but I wanted to be sure to say a big welcome to you,and I hope to read many more of your enlightening posts!And Cotybear I hope you are doing well,and just concentrating and taking care of yourself right now and no one else if you know what I mean.You need all your energy just for you right now,don't spend that energy where it is not appreciated.I hope the best for you and sending peaceful thoughts your way..........take care..........Wren'