Hi Wren, I still hope, like you, Coty gets the help that she needs. But you have drawn attention to all the information I didn't see/read. This is textbook, there are two sides to each story but more importantly, I still believe there is somewhere deep in her mind, some crying out. But like you, I'm not sure if she's ready, I believe we can only hope so for you Coty. I really do. Thanks Wren, you are always a straight forward contribution I've noticed, here on D.B.!:)