I agree you need to get out now! My first husband was a abuser, they never get better it only gets worse. His problem was alcohol the more he drank the meaner he was.
He is now married to his third wife. It was hard for me to leave him I believed I loved him THIS IS NOT LOVE. When some one loves you they do not hurt you for any reason.
Marriage is a partnership of two people working together
to get by in this life time caring for each others needs.
I am so sorry that you must have this in your life my
heart goes out to you. D