coty,

He's not remorseful because he only care about his drug of choice, not you. This is not a marriage. It is an enabling environment for both of you.

Things will not get better. It is hard to confront that thought, but I have no doubt in my mind it is true. You cannot heal while in a supposedly loving relationship with a person who abuses you.

Get out now, it will only get harder.

Your husband should not hit you. He should not steal your drugs.

Get divorced and do yourself a big favor. You owe it to yourself.

Marriage counseling- he's just going to lie and tell the therapist what he wants to hear. That's what addicts do, they lie.

If you don't do this now, you will look back on what I said and regret not doing it before getting too deeply into the hole that is right around the corner.

He is not the man for you. There are men who don't hit you and steal medication and lie.

I am so sorry this happened, but please do something about it.

-yawkaw