I read something about opiates affecting or effecting - whatever the right word is - smooth muscles, like the ones in the urinary system... so you might have some kind of link there.

Don't be embarassed, with all the medical problems around here and the VIP board someone is likely to have suffered from the same thing.

Urinary tract health, now I'm just going from memory as someone who used to get a ton of UTI's as a kid and teen...

lots of water... *flush* out the bacteria

cranberry juice, also comes in caps from GNC, bet you could find it online all sorts of places, all sorts of prices
go potty right after having intercourse - pm for details on why
no soaps with smells and stuff - ivory soap is good enough for that place.

take a shower b4 sex - pm for that info too
wipe front to back

Hope this helps, I'll keep this in the back of my mind and let you know if I remember anything else.

PM with any questions

hannah