SWTAngel
Let me just throw in my two cents, and you can take this with a grain of salt (as much as any of the other reccommendations) since I'm not a doctor.

I do however play one on TV. Just kidding. Honestly, I never had any luck with the Seraquel (sp?). It's something that works for some and from what I have heard absolutely failed others.

From your post it sounds as if you're trying to treat too many symptoms with one drug. That may work if your only problem is anxiety related, but if you've got depression and anxiety you may have to get on two drugs for each of the two symptoms.

I think you'd do best with a combination of low-dose Lexapro (the least side effects of any of the anti-depressants), and something like Buspar which is an anti anxiety drug, as some have already pointed out.

I think it's best to get this type of treatment from a Psychologist, but then again who am I to tell you this?

Just a suggestion........

Colby