I was in two really bad car crashes. Neither was my fault. Ironically the second crash the person that hit me had one eye and I was sitting in his blind spot. Anyway, I have multiple problems. I am a mother of three. I had two of my children before the auto accidents. Anyway, when I got preg with my third I was on oxy. I was in a pain mgt program. Anyway, I stopped taking it. They put me on darvocet just as needed. NO ASPIRIN. (Aspirin promotes bleeding) Anyway, things were pretty tough. I had been taking four to five oxy's a day for four years but all I could think about was this baby. Anyway, later in my pregnancy after the second trimester they gave me lorcet for pain. The day I had my third I took two darvocets. I had a csection and they put me to sleep. They were concerned about the baby having withdrawals. Miraculously he didn't have ANY. Amazing. He was/is perfectly happy and healthy. Actually he has been the healthiest child so far. Go figure. I did a lot of praying. Sorry for the long post but I really tossed and turned over this one. Every time I had to take something I agonized and then I felt guilty. But everything worked out. Get your friend some professional help. If that baby is born with birth defects it will be terrible. Please help her. With love, Curiousdee