Lisa,
I'm a year older than you and have 3 children, 10,7 & 5. I suffer from TMJ, Migraines & Back Pain. I honestly don't know how I am surviving! I was working full time up until a month ago but went part time because of the stress of the job which is a migraine trigger for me. I have been off work on medical leave since last Monday with a Migraine. I am on all kinds of meds and not getting any relief. I was on Stadol NS which is a narcotic nasal spray for migraines but I am out of that. I had previously been ordering from OP since July for pain relief. I decided enough was enough and went back to my PCP and asked to be referred to a Pain Clinic. Instead he sent me to the Neurologist who is currently treating me. The narcotics were the only thing that took the pain away but I decided that I wanted to get off them and get on something preventative. I am still holding out hope at this point that we find it!!
I hope you get this message and if you want to talk further, please PM me. Take care, I feel the same way as you.